Don't let it be awkward fren. This is your moment, try to push any thoughts of her out of your mind. She is now no different to the rest of your friend group in your eyes.
You are now free to continue the search for your real partner.
In twenty years you won't even remember this girls name, keep that in mind whenever one makes you sad. Best of luck fren.
It will be hard at first fren. Sometimes we caught up devoting so much to one person that we forget to take care of ourselves. View this as an opportunity to be good to yourself fren.
I feel you fren
That's actually quite long for a first relationship.
I recently went through a rough breakup, what I'd say helps the most is knowing the breakup wasn't your fault
well she is really really clingy, and i am p clingy in return. One day she just got super distant, and she said that she felt no connection when we texted. And that I was too physical( keep in mind ive never done this before so i have nothing to compare it to and she had never told me before) she said said she wanted a break and being the frenly boi i am i said ok can we be frens? and she said yea ig
recently broke up too fren, trust me after a few weeks you'll feel better, and during that try and avoid thinking about her and the relationship, think about all the flirting and dates you can do now that youre a single ready to mingle! good luck fren
Well fren. You’re gonna be sad for a while. You have the right to feel bad. So take your time, don’t feel a rush to stop feeling bad. Just focus on you for a while, it’s gonna suck real bad, but do the things you love doing, and eventually you’ll find yourself over it. Take your time fren.
it gets better fren. It hurts now but you'll look back on the relationship as a cringey and sour thing. You'll find out how young and naive you were about the whole thing and how much you have grown since then.
It gets better fren, don't give up. You do you fren, because you are the bestest fren.
I'm a gurl and it's sounds like she's just too young to commit, so don't be hurt it's probably nothing personal, she's just too young and probably does things by the whims of things.
Being clingy shows how much you cared about her, but take it as an opportunity to grow and learn. Not all girls are the same so don't apply the same rules to your next relationship, but learn to see patterns and be weary of them.
The most important thing about being in a relationship is self love, you need to love yourself enough to know that having someone else love you isn't the only validation. People come in all different shapes and sizes and we can't depend on all the different opinions to make us feel better about ourselves, we will never be satisfied!
Loving yourself is the hardest part of any relationship.
Maybe on the clingy part, if that was her only complaint, reflect on why she said it. Were you stopping her from doing some things or making her feel bad for being without you? If not (there may be more than the two Options) then maybe she's just growing and learning about herself and others too.
Sometimes girls want to break up with guys just to prove a point.
Do you think you became too distant that she thought you weren't interested anymore?
All valid questions. Reflect on it and learn but don't try and push things.
And the best advice, only go into relationships with girls who are caring and mature with solid intentions (not just a Fling) ... And make sure you are mature enough too... That will lessen the amount of times your heart might break.
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1 nobodysbusiness77897 2019-04-21
Plenty of fish in the sea
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
tenk u fren
1 immaculacy 2019-04-21
you'll have wife someday fren. think about her in the meantime.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
alright fren
1 Exotic_Spoon 2019-04-21
Suck some dick fren. Girls r icky
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
yim yum fren
1 iblewkatieholmes 2019-04-21
Come here fren I will comfort you
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
i need hugs fren pls
1 iblewkatieholmes 2019-04-21
Just let me nuzzle on you fren gis you a kissy
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
yeeeees
1 sonofrevan 2019-04-21
Is this a nonfren trick?
1 blazebomb77 2019-04-21
go with mommy
1 YoungGuru___2 2019-04-21
Bad fren we don’t bop we just keep moving through life being frenly
1 blazebomb77 2019-04-21
this is why we get hurt fren
1 CapitalGigi 2019-04-21
time will help, fren. try to distract yourself a little bit for right now.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok fren. i will try
1 MC_MrFluffyPants 2019-04-21
Keep some distance from the gorl for a while fren it will get better just give it some time focus on making yourself more awesome.
1 Ornch64 2019-04-21
spend time with real frens (ur homies). best distraction in my opinion
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
but she is in my fren group and it is v awkward
1 Hug_a_bulldog 2019-04-21
Don't let it be awkward fren. This is your moment, try to push any thoughts of her out of your mind. She is now no different to the rest of your friend group in your eyes. You are now free to continue the search for your real partner. In twenty years you won't even remember this girls name, keep that in mind whenever one makes you sad. Best of luck fren.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
tenk u fren
1 WanderingMeme 2019-04-21
It will be hard at first fren. Sometimes we caught up devoting so much to one person that we forget to take care of ourselves. View this as an opportunity to be good to yourself fren.
Stay strong.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
tenk u so fragging much fren
1 I-Have-Hollow-Bones 2019-04-21
Talking about it helps, how long were you two together fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
6 months fren, not long but first time
1 I-Have-Hollow-Bones 2019-04-21
I feel you fren That's actually quite long for a first relationship. I recently went through a rough breakup, what I'd say helps the most is knowing the breakup wasn't your fault
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok fren, tenks, but she said it was basically my fault.
1 I-Have-Hollow-Bones 2019-04-21
Well what happened
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
well she is really really clingy, and i am p clingy in return. One day she just got super distant, and she said that she felt no connection when we texted. And that I was too physical( keep in mind ive never done this before so i have nothing to compare it to and she had never told me before) she said said she wanted a break and being the frenly boi i am i said ok can we be frens? and she said yea ig
1 I-Have-Hollow-Bones 2019-04-21
Well that sounds like her fault You adapted to how she wanted the relationship then changed her mind Midway through
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok fren, it just hurts to see her acting like nothing happened
1 I-Have-Hollow-Bones 2019-04-21
I know but everything will get better
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
tenks fren
1 I-Have-Hollow-Bones 2019-04-21
No problem Fren Feel better and don't get bopped
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok will do fren
1 IAMSamHydeAMA 2019-04-21
https://youtu.be/OMnXsfSrx7s
Watch this fren you’ll be okay
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
oki fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
on second thought wtf fren. v strange
1 egglover65 2019-04-21
recently broke up too fren, trust me after a few weeks you'll feel better, and during that try and avoid thinking about her and the relationship, think about all the flirting and dates you can do now that youre a single ready to mingle! good luck fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
Tenks
1 thememescoper 2019-04-21
It is easy to lose perspective fren, just remember that everything will be ok. She is NOT the only one that can make you happy, only U can do that.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
Tenks fren
1 brownshapiro 2019-04-21
Hit the iron temple fren get a membership
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
Lol
1 Young_Molly 2019-04-21
It gets better fren remember if your feeling blue that it wont last forever
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
okok fren tenk u v much
1 thelazyho 2019-04-21
Get super high on dope and forget everything
1 MC_MrFluffyPants 2019-04-21
This is not a good idea fren!
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
i agree
1 IrkenInvaderTak 2019-04-21
Every bad and sad thing that happens to you is making you into the best fren of your future wifren fren chin up don't give up we love you fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
<3
1 souleater8764 2019-04-21
Well fren. You’re gonna be sad for a while. You have the right to feel bad. So take your time, don’t feel a rush to stop feeling bad. Just focus on you for a while, it’s gonna suck real bad, but do the things you love doing, and eventually you’ll find yourself over it. Take your time fren.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
Tenks fren
1 TheSteelCoconut 2019-04-21
No drugs or alcohols fren. Just water and fruit, make me happyer and make me feel good fren. PM me fren if you feel bad still. Love you fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok will do fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
Hey man I could really use some advice, but I’m on the mobile website... could you pm me
1 Lady_Otaku 2019-04-21
it gets better fren. It hurts now but you'll look back on the relationship as a cringey and sour thing. You'll find out how young and naive you were about the whole thing and how much you have grown since then.
It gets better fren, don't give up. You do you fren, because you are the bestest fren.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
tenk you bestestest fren
1 Redliquid 2019-04-21
You will grow as a person from this fren. Its gonna feel crappy for a while but you will become better from this :)
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
:) tenk u fren
1 CharitableMiser 2019-04-21
Oneitis. Look it up. The erroneous thinking that there is only that one female, when in fact they're a dime a dozen.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
o wow thank you fren
1 GloriousClitorious 2019-04-21
Good riddance
1 tacticalinfernape 2019-04-21
you deserve better . why don't you just focus on your work ( study , job etc ) ?
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
i will try fren but i really enjoy procrastinating
1 Knoxxs_Gold 2019-04-21
Remember it's okay to be sad fren. Enjoy some time outside of a relationship. You'll get better, it just takes time. Good luck, and stay hydrated.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok fren
1 Ultimate_Ronaldo 2019-04-21
Keep going fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok i will try fren
1 Ultimate_Ronaldo 2019-04-21
Good
1 Paztelcat 2019-04-21
I'm a gurl and it's sounds like she's just too young to commit, so don't be hurt it's probably nothing personal, she's just too young and probably does things by the whims of things.
Being clingy shows how much you cared about her, but take it as an opportunity to grow and learn. Not all girls are the same so don't apply the same rules to your next relationship, but learn to see patterns and be weary of them.
The most important thing about being in a relationship is self love, you need to love yourself enough to know that having someone else love you isn't the only validation. People come in all different shapes and sizes and we can't depend on all the different opinions to make us feel better about ourselves, we will never be satisfied!
Loving yourself is the hardest part of any relationship.
Maybe on the clingy part, if that was her only complaint, reflect on why she said it. Were you stopping her from doing some things or making her feel bad for being without you? If not (there may be more than the two Options) then maybe she's just growing and learning about herself and others too.
Sometimes girls want to break up with guys just to prove a point.
Do you think you became too distant that she thought you weren't interested anymore?
All valid questions. Reflect on it and learn but don't try and push things.
And the best advice, only go into relationships with girls who are caring and mature with solid intentions (not just a Fling) ... And make sure you are mature enough too... That will lessen the amount of times your heart might break.
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
wowza tenk u v much fren, that gives me alot to think about
1 Paztelcat 2019-04-21
Anytime Sweetie 🤗
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
you are a bestest fren
1 Pockop19 2019-04-21
be safe fren, there is hope in the future for every fren in frenworld
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
tenk u fren
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok fren, it just hurts to see her acting like nothing happened
1 Moicut 2019-04-21
ok fren