stop right now. do me a big favor. look in the mirror. Say "that is me right now,but thats not me tomorrow" when your thoughts overwhelm you, that's just today. those are just thoughts, that's not you. To defeat the big sad you need real help, but most therapists are going to give you real help. You need frens to relax with. You need to try and do just a bit better every day. you need to be able to be happy without thinking it will last forever, and the same with feeling sad. I'd recommend mindfulness style meditation, and trying slowly to improve yourself. Try to change your envorment. if you do certain things every day just try to do them a little different, even if its just walking down a different path on your way to a location or eating scrambled eggs instead of fried eggs.
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You are a very good fren, and you deserve to get better. not because other people say so, dont look for validation. be a better person for yourself.
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I love you fren and I want you to feel better and I'm happy to check in with you everyday in private messages if you want.
I helped him out till he went to sleep, he's feeling better now. I want to put a challenge to all frens, a lot of us are boomers who are used to KYS feg type stuff. Lil dudes need some help sometimes, don't give them lies just do the best you can. All frens deserve frenliness.
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1 cotop_pampf 2019-02-28
tell them if they are nice, i hope it gets better soon fren
1 weboomin 2019-02-28
LIFEMAXXXING
It was shared on old sub, someone posted lots of good info
https://archived.moe/fit/thread/49660506
Continued here, still on https://boards.4channel.org/fit/thread/49691566
You will be able to read it here after it gets archived:
https://archived.moe/fit/thread/49691566
I haven't check it fully and it has some classic 4chan autism, but it should be useful.
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Ok thank you i will read it fren
1 browniesandownies 2019-02-28
Is this almost like bloatmaxxing fren?
1 Thatguitarduderagain 2019-02-28
stop right now. do me a big favor. look in the mirror. Say "that is me right now,but thats not me tomorrow" when your thoughts overwhelm you, that's just today. those are just thoughts, that's not you. To defeat the big sad you need real help, but most therapists are going to give you real help. You need frens to relax with. You need to try and do just a bit better every day. you need to be able to be happy without thinking it will last forever, and the same with feeling sad. I'd recommend mindfulness style meditation, and trying slowly to improve yourself. Try to change your envorment. if you do certain things every day just try to do them a little different, even if its just walking down a different path on your way to a location or eating scrambled eggs instead of fried eggs.
​
You are a very good fren, and you deserve to get better. not because other people say so, dont look for validation. be a better person for yourself.
​
I love you fren and I want you to feel better and I'm happy to check in with you everyday in private messages if you want.
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Thank you for help fren
1 Thatguitarduderagain 2019-02-28
don't thank me fren, you deserve thanks for being honest. We all want you to the best you can be.
1 WellPlayed 2019-02-28
Its okay to cry sometimes fren. Clowntown is a sad place. We now live in fren town. Don't dwell on the past.
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Thanks fren
1 Canadeaan 2019-02-28
don't treat yourself as a second class fren, fren
checkout JoeRogan's podcast from yesterday with Dr.Phil
good talk, good advice, helped me a bit when i was feeling down
also he swears and its funny :)
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Ok fren, do you have a link?
1 Canadeaan 2019-02-28
here you go fren
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65epASHLblo
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Thank you fren
1 Thatguitarduderagain 2019-02-28
I helped him out till he went to sleep, he's feeling better now. I want to put a challenge to all frens, a lot of us are boomers who are used to KYS feg type stuff. Lil dudes need some help sometimes, don't give them lies just do the best you can. All frens deserve frenliness.
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
Have you been getting sun, eating well, exercising etc?
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Yes, i havent been exercising much though
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
Maybe start going for some outdoor walks. Are you taking vitamins?
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Yes
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
What meds are you taking?
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
I am not taking any anti-depressants if thats what you mean. I take vitamin c and vitamin d
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
Have you ever tried them?
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Anti-depressants? No.
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
Maybe you should
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Yeah i might go to a doctor about it, i dont really feel comfortable talking about my depression to people i know
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
None of us do feel comfortable with that. But I did it and now I feel less suicidal
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Okay fren, i will talk with my doctor about it. Thank u.
1 Kookerpea 2019-02-28
Have a good night
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
you too fren
1 ejdkl2580 2019-02-28
Anti-depressants? No.