Stop watching porn and wasting too much time on vidya, ditch easy dopamine hits and strive for something truly meaningful in your opinion. If you ever stray, remember, you have your frens to help you cope with the big sad. Don’t let the nonfren menace demoralize you, fren.
Here's some frenly tips for improving your life fren:
-Stop watching porn. If you can't do that, at least stop watching the fabricated big-porno HQ productions and move to amateur. Then move to solo with no dicks on screen. Then move away from 3D in general. Then move away from it all. Baby steps make a big stride.
-Don't use vidya as a form of escapism from your responsibilities. Only use it as entertainment after you've fulfilled your responsibility. Let yourself be its master, not it being your master.
-Cut toxic people out of your life. Manipulative non-frens are real and dangerous. Especially watch out for attractive females that try to make you whiteknight for them.
-Find a hobby that benefits you irl. Mine is shooting, but it can be any challenging sport or activity like tossing the caber, Finnish wife-carrying contests, mixed martial arts, etc. Music (real instruments, not electric) and chess work good too.
-Spend time in places that comfort you. This is why I think Nordic summer cottage culture is good. Having an escape to just chill at is very good for your mental well-being. Cozy places recommended.
-Whatever you do, avoid spending more that 38 hours straight indoors. A trip to the shops is already good, a walk around the village is better, and the longer the better. You can have one "pyjama day" per week if you wish.
-Get sleep. For some people even 8 hours isn't enough, I have calculated that I require 9 hours of sleep, and lack of rest is a big problem for folks especially under the age of 25. Sleep before midnight, because that's when the most important information is supposed to be filtered.
-Spend time with folks you love and your family. Call your parents to see how they're doing, organise meet-ups or gaming seshs with friends. Doesn't have to be complicated.
-Less alcohol, and no drugs/tobacco. You should already know this from school, but there's nothing wrong with reminding yourself every once in a while.
-Don't snack on junk food. Having a bowl of unhealthy snacks open in your household is the worst thing you can do. If you wish to satisfy the snacking need anyway, place a jug of celery in places you usually walk. The chewy texture coupled with low calories satisfies the need for snacking on something without being harmful.
That's most of what I could think of. Say if you want something else added to the list, frens!
22 comments
1 parapaparapa 2019-02-01
It's gonna be alright. Have you tried to stop watching porn?
1 CIA_watches_me_pee 2019-02-01
Do deepfakes of shrek movies with the cast of seinfeld as their faces count as porn fren?
1 Doivid_Magnum 2019-02-01
I gotta admit my fren, that's some good stuff so I'll let it pass
1 einskrub 2019-02-01
Does it help Fren ? I am kinda feeling same as OP
1 TomDeath 2019-02-01
In the long run: Absolutely. Stop watching porn, fren!
1 Marie_Cachet_Youtube 2019-02-01
Stop watching porn, VV brothers.
1 UhhUmmmWowOkayJeezUh 2019-02-01
Play chess fren
1 dongrel_monger 2019-02-01
pet kitty
1 PotatoLord8 2019-02-01
Hang out w/ frens
1 ThatGuyWithTheNeck 2019-02-01
I have no frens fren
1 Yeezushi 2019-02-01
Bath with a toaster fren, you'll feel better afterwards
1 PotatoWielder9001 2019-02-01
This does not work. I tried it.
1 ShockingPinkCrayon 2019-02-01
That wasn't a nice suggestion fren
1 Slizie 2019-02-01
Just calm down and do something fun, it will get better eventually.
1 DaanV1 2019-02-01
If you are sad many days go see doctorperson. Doctorperson helps frens like us keep the big sad away. Thank you doctorpersons.
1 Concumber 2019-02-01
Its true fren i was sad every day and then a doctorperson gave me happy pills and now I'm happy a lot
1 ShockingPinkCrayon 2019-02-01
Make more frens
1 riverofpower 2019-02-01
Stop watching porn and wasting too much time on vidya, ditch easy dopamine hits and strive for something truly meaningful in your opinion. If you ever stray, remember, you have your frens to help you cope with the big sad. Don’t let the nonfren menace demoralize you, fren.
1 BurritoFlapMouse 2019-02-01
Post pork
1 Doivid_Magnum 2019-02-01
Here's some frenly tips for improving your life fren:
-Stop watching porn. If you can't do that, at least stop watching the fabricated big-porno HQ productions and move to amateur. Then move to solo with no dicks on screen. Then move away from 3D in general. Then move away from it all. Baby steps make a big stride.
-Don't use vidya as a form of escapism from your responsibilities. Only use it as entertainment after you've fulfilled your responsibility. Let yourself be its master, not it being your master.
-Cut toxic people out of your life. Manipulative non-frens are real and dangerous. Especially watch out for attractive females that try to make you whiteknight for them.
-Find a hobby that benefits you irl. Mine is shooting, but it can be any challenging sport or activity like tossing the caber, Finnish wife-carrying contests, mixed martial arts, etc. Music (real instruments, not electric) and chess work good too.
-Spend time in places that comfort you. This is why I think Nordic summer cottage culture is good. Having an escape to just chill at is very good for your mental well-being. Cozy places recommended.
-Whatever you do, avoid spending more that 38 hours straight indoors. A trip to the shops is already good, a walk around the village is better, and the longer the better. You can have one "pyjama day" per week if you wish.
-Get sleep. For some people even 8 hours isn't enough, I have calculated that I require 9 hours of sleep, and lack of rest is a big problem for folks especially under the age of 25. Sleep before midnight, because that's when the most important information is supposed to be filtered.
-Spend time with folks you love and your family. Call your parents to see how they're doing, organise meet-ups or gaming seshs with friends. Doesn't have to be complicated.
-Less alcohol, and no drugs/tobacco. You should already know this from school, but there's nothing wrong with reminding yourself every once in a while.
-Don't snack on junk food. Having a bowl of unhealthy snacks open in your household is the worst thing you can do. If you wish to satisfy the snacking need anyway, place a jug of celery in places you usually walk. The chewy texture coupled with low calories satisfies the need for snacking on something without being harmful.
That's most of what I could think of. Say if you want something else added to the list, frens!
1 ayanoyamada 2019-02-01
Thank you fren I love you
1 send_nasty_stuff 2019-02-01
This is a very good list fren. I approve. Also finding just one IRL fren so that frenworld isn't just online is a big help.
1 ayanoyamada 2019-02-01
Thank you fren I love you
1 send_nasty_stuff 2019-02-01
This is a very good list fren. I approve. Also finding just one IRL fren so that frenworld isn't just online is a big help.