It's a blessing in disguise fren. Most women are only slightly smarter than children, maybe just as selfish. Call it unpopular idc. My opinion. I speak as a professional man with valuable experience too. I still show respect to them regardless.
The good few do exist, but that's a lifelong goal to make a life partner. It's better that you establish yourself first. Create a namesake and a legacy. With that pride and honor comes greater attraction and greater conviction.
Women aren't attracted only to physical aesthetics. They're attracted to power, confidence, knowledge, and the kind of character that comes from achieving a lot.
TL;DR: It truthfully does not matter if you get rejected. Don't obsess over it. I've made those mistakes and lost years of peace and clarity. Girls are LUCKY to have your attention. Head up! Be strong.
I wouldn't call it celebacy... it's VERY voluntary. I still have regularish casual sex but it's not an important part of my life. No pride gained from it.
Call it pretentious or selfish but it's a very tangible issue of contention being someone with a high percentile IQ (r/verysmart I know). It's easy to end up isolated from people. Women even easier. Close to all women I've met including all family members have been childish and vain. I can think of only 2 girls immediately who are moral and accomplished, but that's it.
Do I show them the necessary outward respect and well wishes? Definitely.
I'm fortunate enough to have way bigger aspirations than just surfing through girls, blowing money and getting disappointed bc women are fickle and childish. I think some start to find their senses/morality in later age.
Eh I was making a joke. Even though I strongly disagree with you and your beliefs I can respect the way you think. Especially since you admit to showing them “respect and well wishes.”
It’s okay fren, through this we become stronger and learn to steel ourselves. Rejection is part of life. And if she rejects you, then she doesn’t deserve you. Fren, we are your frens and will stay your frens. Keep looking, you’ll find the girl fren you deserve some day
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1 bullymamm0th 2018-10-01
dont cry :( ull alwas hav ur frens!
1 Twydall 2018-10-01
there’s plenty of frens in the sea fren
1 randomincel2018 2018-10-01
It ok fren. I feel ur struggle. She not a reel fren
1 BeeFucker30000 2018-10-01
is ok fren ill be ur fren
1 PangaeaRepublic 2018-10-01
Fren lower your standards until girls meet you halfway
1 awesomeasianguy 2018-10-01
The real frens are always in the comments
1 PangaeaRepublic 2018-10-01
Fat frens will always be there for you OP
1 flatearthispsyop 2018-10-01
ouch
you'll find someone bro
1 clburns22 2018-10-01
She’s missing out fren
1 douglas4321 2018-10-01
She just wasn’t for you Fren I believe you just haven’t met your soulmate yet! Love and happiness is just round the corner, you just wait and see!
1 Bcsaldi18 2018-10-01
*soulfren
1 RedditSurveillance 2018-10-01
It's a blessing in disguise fren. Most women are only slightly smarter than children, maybe just as selfish. Call it unpopular idc. My opinion. I speak as a professional man with valuable experience too. I still show respect to them regardless.
The good few do exist, but that's a lifelong goal to make a life partner. It's better that you establish yourself first. Create a namesake and a legacy. With that pride and honor comes greater attraction and greater conviction.
Women aren't attracted only to physical aesthetics. They're attracted to power, confidence, knowledge, and the kind of character that comes from achieving a lot.
TL;DR: It truthfully does not matter if you get rejected. Don't obsess over it. I've made those mistakes and lost years of peace and clarity. Girls are LUCKY to have your attention. Head up! Be strong.
1 CountChadvonCisberg 2018-10-01
Bad incel fren.
1 RedditSurveillance 2018-10-01
I wouldn't call it celebacy... it's VERY voluntary. I still have regularish casual sex but it's not an important part of my life. No pride gained from it.
Call it pretentious or selfish but it's a very tangible issue of contention being someone with a high percentile IQ (r/verysmart I know). It's easy to end up isolated from people. Women even easier. Close to all women I've met including all family members have been childish and vain. I can think of only 2 girls immediately who are moral and accomplished, but that's it.
Do I show them the necessary outward respect and well wishes? Definitely.
I'm fortunate enough to have way bigger aspirations than just surfing through girls, blowing money and getting disappointed bc women are fickle and childish. I think some start to find their senses/morality in later age.
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1 CountChadvonCisberg 2018-10-01
Eh I was making a joke. Even though I strongly disagree with you and your beliefs I can respect the way you think. Especially since you admit to showing them “respect and well wishes.”
I’ll make an edit to my joke :)
1 RedditSurveillance 2018-10-01
Hey it's alright fren not mad at u. U good fren
Just clarifying for others that come and read : )
1 CountChadvonCisberg 2018-10-01
Yay frens
1 CountChadvonCisberg 2018-10-01
It’s okay fren, through this we become stronger and learn to steel ourselves. Rejection is part of life. And if she rejects you, then she doesn’t deserve you. Fren, we are your frens and will stay your frens. Keep looking, you’ll find the girl fren you deserve some day
1 Bcsaldi18 2018-10-01
*soulfren